Monday, November 30, 2009

Can gay people stop living a gay lifestyle and live a life of hetersexual nature?

Once a person admits and acts on being gay can they ever refrain and live life according to so many religious concepts or beliefs? Does the struggle inside ones self ever cease with the temptation and desires or is one merely a freak of nature to be so confused?Can gay people stop living a gay lifestyle and live a life of hetersexual nature?
I suppose if a gay person then fell in love with an opposite sex person and chose to live life with that person they would convert, but it wouldn't be by force so much as just natural. Of course they could always be 'attracted' to people of their own sex, just not act on it like regular heterosexual people are happily married/involved but are attracted to other people without acting on it.Can gay people stop living a gay lifestyle and live a life of hetersexual nature?
gay people are not confused... nor are they a ';freak of nature';...and your sexuality is not a ';lifestyle';... a lifestyle is whether you choose to live in the country or the city...have pets or not... have children or focus on a career... There is no struggle inside myself and God loves me exactly as he created me...





thanks for your concern...





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to ';Cabs';... I love it when someone says things like ';research'; when they have none and there is none...nice try....
sure and be miserable the rest of our lives. We cant help who we are attracted too..we cant help who we love..we cant change who we are just to make the homophobes happy.
I just asked this question when responding to someone else's question!!





Wouldn't be hard to impossible? I mean it's so much easier for a heterosexual to become bi or even homosexual but it's so much harder for a homosexual to become bi and even harder to damn near impossible to become heterosexual.
I don't think anyone who is confused is a freak of nature. It's okay to be confused. I think being gay isn't a choice, but if a person wants to follow the concepts and beliefs of a particular religion then I am sure that they could try to conform thier sexuality to those beliefs, but I imagine that it would be a hard struggle and a lonely way to live life.
Research has shown that the answer is yes, some/many can. Research has also shown that those who do turn to a heterosexual nature are usually happier.
thats a really confusing question, but i think once a person claims they are gay then why would they want to go back? in my way of thought, once you go gay you dont want the other, thats what i think
Lots of homosexuals live a heterosexual lifestyle. You just don't know that they're doing so because they're so good at it.
One may go into hiding, but one always comes out of hiding sooner or later...
I dont get it how does our life differ from your str8 life, we both have same problems, well only you str8 people are privileged!
No.
If you feel disgusted with yourself i suggest you


see a counselor that is





NOT





associated with your church. Someone who doesn't have an interest in whether you are gay or not.


Not to disrespect your church, but many of them would have you choose their moral code over your happiness.





my belief


is God wants


you to be HAPPY


whether you are


gay


or not.
yup. over 16,000 have ... more will.
of course...... god created adam and eve......... not adam and steve..... go to a church and talk to a pastor

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